02-15-2008, 06:50 PM
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Join Date: Oct 2007
Location: England
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Originally Posted by Spontanious
what am i to do, i want to have sex but im not sure if im ready, and this is the age where everyone is talking about it, i dont know what to do.. yes i wanna be like everywun else.. it sucks when u are the only virgin everyone looks at you different..
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Uh... my advice would be to follow your instincts. Don't do so just because the crowd has different perceptions on what's in. Besides... if you just do so because you want to be considered accepted, or because everyone else has "done it" apparently, you are more likely to get hurt emotionally that way. Seriously, its not worth it ... to leap when you know you're not ready 'cause there's always that haunting possibility of the truth(which is likely to happen) that you find out after its happened, that really - they haven't done so, 'cause they weren't ready themselves and didn't wish to be targeted, like yourself.
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