So, I found out earlier tonight that my cousin is having a surprise wedding for her boyfriend.
Basically, she's going to tell him to meet her at church one morning, and then surprise him with a wedding.

I think it's an extremely stupid thing to do.
If I get married, one of the things I would be excited to do is plan out my wedding with that lucky guy (or girl JUST KIDDING!)
It also tests how well you and your partner work together, with all the planing, and financing. You can also see how well your partner copes under stress, because planing your "dream" wedding can get pretty stressful, from what I've seen. It's also good bonding time, in my opinion.

What do you guys think?
and has anyone experienced something like this?

(I put this in the "family and friends" forum because there's not much activity here, and it relates to my family )