I couldn't give details ... I've been with men with such wide ranges of personality that details have gone out the window. It's a matter of depth to me, now. If I figure you out within the first few minutes of a conversation I will (most likely) no longer be interested, because there'd be nothing left to discover. Depth and perception are what attract me. The physical aspects matter to a point, but not enough to care too much. And to the chick up there going on about chivalry, you'll only find that in books. Gallantry took its last bow in the South over 100 years ago.