Take it one day at a time. You're trying to scope out too many parts of this situation all at once. First, look at yourself and how you may feel about him having feelings for another person. If that's not for you, end it there. If you feel like you can work through it, then move on to this next step.
Confront him about it. Just explain that you understand that he has a past with other girls and he may still feel certain ways (nostalgia, old love, whatever) about them, but if he really wants to be with you, then all that needs to be put behind him. Memories and friends? He shouldn't abandon them, but he should caution himself, and maybe put a little distance between old crushes if he really wants to makes you & him work.
End the lying, because it'll only hurt your side of the argument/debate/etc..etc.. when you bring it up.
Also, don't be so antagonistic towards this girl, since it does't seem as if she is trying to ruin your relationship. If she keeps pushing herself on your b/f, trying to "hang out" all the time or whatever, then maybe you'll have a problem. But don't be so paranoid just yet.
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