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Old 05-07-2008, 11:45 AM
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I'm a girl, and I have always been interested in girls. Recently I've been needing to go to the pharmacy a lot for certain things, and I noticed a girl who was working in there. She wasn't working at the counter, she was working at the back where they sort the prescriptions, but I could still see her and everything.

She looks really hot and cute as well, and it wasn't until she started looking at me that I actually noticed her. It was one of those moments where someone looks at you, and then you look at them, and then they look away. It kept happening, but obviously I didn't want to get my hopes up at the time and think she was interested, so I got my stuff and left.

I went back again about 2 weeks later, and the same thing happened again, but she was looking at me for longer this time. I had to go again today, and it happened again. This time I looked at her for longer than usual and then smiled at her, and she sort of looked embarrassed and looked away.

I don't know what to do, ever since I've seen her I can't seem to stop thinking about her.It's as if I could sense some sort of connection between us, but I'm probably being stupid. The annoying thing is that she doesnt work at the counter, so I can't even talk to her. I really want to try and get to know her but I have no idea how to do it. I was thinking maybe writing a note and giving it to someone else who works in there, and they could give it to her, but I'm not sure what I should write and if I should do it :/

Any ideas about which approach I should take? Part of me thinks the note idea could be good, but I don't know what to write. I already know her name, so I guess that's a start lol.
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Old 05-07-2008, 02:14 PM
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Walk up to her casually, and ask her "Hey, can you help me with some medication?". Try to do it as if you are interested in the medication. And when she walks over, BAM, start trying to get to know her. But watch out, maybe she is being friendly, and is not gay :S
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Walk up to her casually, and ask her "Hey, can you help me with some medication?". Try to do it as if you are interested in the medication. And when she walks over, BAM, start trying to get to know her. But watch out, maybe she is being friendly, and is not gay :S
Yeah good point, that was my main worry - thinking she's just being friendly. It was just the way she kept looking at me that made me think, and she seems like the shy type. I wish I could ask her that, but I don't think we're allowed in that room she's in :S Plus its a really small pharmacy. I'm also worried that the note might not go down well, but she doesn't seem like the kind of person who would laugh and tell everyone even if she wasn't interested.
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And you can tell this from looking at her...? lol. Trust me, try my way, and you will either get a yes (if she's into girls) or a no (if she isn't). No inbetween
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i would be straight up and ask her
after all, wut other time would u see her other than at the pharmacy?
i know its a little bit hard
but just think.....if u ask her straight up, and she says yes, you will feel so much more relieved
and if she says no....there will be an ackward silence haha but other than that....umm, nothing more
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If she says no, have a product in your hand ready to use incase of an awkward silence:

*awkward silence*
"Sooo do you have any of these *hold up product* in the non drowsy kind?"

It's a fool proof plan.
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