I've had a crush on this girl since 4th grade and after grade 5 I was home schooled, I was far to nervous back then to really say anything to her. Now 4 years later, I'm back in public high school. I see her again. It was almost love at first sight, poeticely speaking. Anyway, talked to her, so we where kind of at the "new friend point", then I week later, I decide I'm going to have a go, since I'm changing schools next year, I figured, I've got nothing to really lose. So I asked her at the bus stop after school if she wanted to go out to movies with me. I was pleasantly surprised when she said yes. But we had to keep the conversation brief since she had to run to hockey practice. So the next day I ran into her at lunch, went over to say hi and see what movie she wanted to see, what her schedule was like, parents permission ect. When I walked up to her, she was petrified. Then she darted off behind her friends. She yelled back sorry. I asked what the problem was and she wouldn't really give me a straight answer, much less complete a full sentence. She had her friends come up to me and speak for her, and I'm still in the dark. Then her friend came up to me and gave me the lamest excuse I ever heard "ummm yea she can't go out with you because she's a lesbian and I'm her lover" Now that to me is no answer. Just then, the bell rang. I haven't seen her since. But I tried sending her a msg on her myspace type thing saying sorry if I embarrassed you ect. No reply yet.

Now, I don't have a real answer and I have no clue what to do at this point. Like what do I do or say monday? And what did I do wrong here?

Oh and btw, I've had lots of experience with women, this is the youngest out of them though. I normally try to date ones that have a job, and more mature. Mostly 16+

But to me, she's special. And I don't want to screw up a future relationship with her. I just need some advice on what approach I should take.

How old are you?
And to me, it seems she is being really immature. And it seems as though you have done nothing wrong, or nothing to make her hate you over night, so I'd just try talking to her one on one (with out her friends around), if she's a decent girl she'll at least talk to you.

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Yeah, you're too good for her man. She's very immature, and let her continue acting like that. She will realize her mistake.

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I'm 15. I was thinking I should see if she acts the same, and if she does, I'll ask if she wants to still go to a movie. And depending on what she says I'd say how bout you go out see and see a movie with me, and after words, see if we like each other enough to go out some more, and if not, at least you got to see a free movie right? You can't lose. I'd word it different but you get the idea.

What do you think?

She sounds so immature, and maybe her friends are influencing her a little too, which is why I agree with whoever said try and talk to her face to face, one to one. See how she acts then.

Maybe you should keep trying to take her to the movies, but don't get your hopes up. she sounds abit of a confuser.

Her friends fucked you over with a major cock-block buddy, and she was stupid enough to listen to them. Don't worry about her, since her life will be ran by others for the rest of her life.

Pathetic.

Also, leave her alone. Flirt with other girls, take others out. If she sees you active with other females, she'll be sure to reconsider her mistake (if you want her that bad).

Don't even worry about it Monday. Just act like it's no big deal, because you'll seem clingy, needy, and desperate if you keep chasing like that. If she comes up and says "Sorry, I couldn't come" just be like, "It's no big deal, I just went with somebody else." Act like she's no more important that any other friend/acquaintance you have.

She doesnt sound like your type, doesnt match your "maturity" criteria.
but if she is so influenced by her friends I would tell her friends to shut the fuck up and let her think for herself.

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This would be clingy/needy and it is not attractive:

1. Her friends are way more important to her than you are.
2. No one girl in high school should matter that much
3. The "maturity" criteria you just mentioned flew out the window

i agree, find some one who won't pretend to be a lesbian after saying yes...thats so stupid!!! i don't see why youre so confused, i think your more infatuated with this girl... she's not special, she just stands out to your visual wants...
seriously, grow some balls, get over her, and play the field of mature girls!
if you can handle them

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