Hey, i'm new to this forum thing. Well, here it goes. Boo hoo, another post about "love". Well I'm about 18 years old now, so i'm almost an old man. I've never been in a relationship before, nor have I ever felt able to start one or "worthy" enough of doing so. But not so long "long story short", theres this wonderful girl who I've met(we've all read that before). I am of course very interested in her. I have gotten to talk with her on a few occasions, mind you she was really the one who initiated the conversation(bless her heart)and I enjoyed it alot. Its hard for me to look people in the eyes. She has beautiful eyes, and I really want to be able to hold her gaze. But its so hard. When we were talking, I wanted so badly to ask her if we could go for a walk, but I didn't, I couldn't. I feel so drawn to her, she is so sweet (by that I mean she has a sweet heart), and she is also a tough girl too, which is good. I better stop myself before I go on and on about her. One of my big problems is this. I have depression and anxiety problems big time. I don't know what to do, she seems so out of reach. I guess I'm appealing more to the girls for help on this one, if anyone bothers to read and/or respond to this little insignificant entry of mine in the first place. Sorry about the length, and for any spelling/grammatical errors. I'm really tired. Hope it made sense in some way if you did read it. Its not really a new topic though. Thanks.

Every guy has some problems with being nervous when they ask a girl out. You just have to let the cajones drop, and ask anyways. Don't let the "depression and anxiety problems" be your excuse.

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Yeh what he said.
Just do it, girls aren't THAT scary!

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The longer we can keep building,
the longer we can keep creating,
the more will be possible.
The longer we can tolerate being incomplete.
Delay gratification.

try being the observer of the chemical imbalances

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Oh c'mon. Girls are human too.
Most even find it somewhat flattering, if a guy is kind of nervous when asking them out, yaknow?

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The longer we can keep building,
the longer we can keep creating,
the more will be possible.
The longer we can tolerate being incomplete.
Delay gratification.

[most] Girls really enjoy being asked out. It gives them a a confidence boost, and i imagine that if she is already initiating conversations with you she is possibly already interested. Just go for it. Even if she says no, you will never regret not asking her out, and it will give you a confidence boost to, because you will have done it!

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