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Old 06-25-2008, 10:41 AM
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Unhappy The guy I'm crushing on doesn't like me b/c of his friends, what should I do?

2 yrs ago, he&I used to talk all the time. I would sit next to him, lend him my pen or whatever&he would glance over at me, flirt with me&say hi in the hall. 1 yr ago HE talked to ME quite a bit during class like we were friends or something (after I told him he was being cold beforehand). But now he knows I like him and&is an asshole when he's with his piece of shit friends, really nice when he's not&just peeks over his shoulder every now&then. I think he's holding back b/c of his friends.
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I wonder why guys act all mushy when there alone with us and act like assholes when your with him and his friends it's ANNOYING!!!!!!!!!!!
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I wonder why guys act all mushy when there alone with us and act like assholes when your with him and his friends it's ANNOYING!!!!!!!!!!!
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2 yrs ago, he&I used to talk all the time. I would sit next to him, lend him my pen or whatever&he would glance over at me, flirt with me&say hi in the hall. 1 yr ago HE talked to ME quite a bit during class like we were friends or something (after I told him he was being cold beforehand). But now he knows I like him and&is an asshole when he's with his piece of shit friends, really nice when he's not&just peeks over his shoulder every now&then. I think he's holding back b/c of his friends.
My ex was the same way he would hate talking to me in front of his friends he would never say love you cause they would make fun of him maybe his friends do the same thing he might hold back so he doesn't get made fun of but still he shouldn't do that but i guess thats just how guys are
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Guys get made fun of for acting feminine. They act masculine around their friends to avoid rejection. So if you don't like it, then try to hang out with him more ALONE? Don't like the problem? Avoid it. Break it off with him if necessary.
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the same thing happened to me we were outside holding hands but when his friends came out he let go!
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I wonder why guys act all mushy when there alone with us and act like assholes when your with him and his friends it's ANNOYING!!!!!!!!!!!
It's the Alpha Male stereotype that most of us (males) face.
We usually have a reputation to live up to when around friends.
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Yeah but if you really like the girl then why do you care what your freakin friends think?
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Solution, get a new crush.

Guys stop being idiots. There's a reason why he doesn't want you in front of his friends, and maybe you shouldn't even address that but leave his ass. Of course you're young, and you're supposed to make mistakes, but don't be a total dumbass.
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