Wew *Same Girl* ftw, R. Kelleh. (Thread Title)

Anyway longstory short, I have known for her a long time, even since we were kids, didn't see her for like 5 years, she came back into my life and I think I've really fallen for her. Just the thing is I wanna tell her I like her, but atm I don't think it would work out (asking her out) because of school and everything..

like 1: We don't hang out together at school, completely different groups.

2: The next 12 months of our lives are the ones we should really be focusing on in terms of study.

Personally I don't see a relationship working out when you both go to the same school, same grade, don't know thats just me. Just a whole lot of issues I could bring up about it, but anyway.

This girl means alot to me, its not one of those crushes where you stare googlyeyed drooling at her not saying a word, she's really sweet etc. etc. where have we not read this before no?

I just don't wanna mess up anything potential, although.. I wanna let her know how I feel, but I don't wanna ask her out, hell when I come out with my feelings to her maybe even say that "I'm not asking you out, but I really really like you and you mean alot to me."

Does that make sense?

Anyway, wanna get some advice from you guys. Thx

Ehh, I don't really think it matters if you go to the same school/are in the same grade. If you like her, just go for it [I realise it might not be THAT easy].

Njord is almost crying.


Because this is too hilarious to be true. A few of your might not agree with me but bear.

First off, dude...come on..Potential wife? Love of your life? You're obsessed over this girl with absolutely no grounding to back up your emotions. Why? Because you're not in a relationship with her, the experiences of which you need to actually base your "love" on.
Second, I would bet money that she sees you as a friend, because you've probably gotten to know her, but took way too long to let your feelings be known. Girls do have a time-limit before a potential mate turns into a friend, and while it varies, it usually isn't very long.
Third, you're scared and your logic is keeping you from making moves with this girl, which means you'll be orbiting her wishing for her to do something to show she likes you the same way (which won't happen). This IS a crush where you're staring googly-eyed because you have yet to tell her how you feel.
Forth, you're WAY too into this one girl. I can tell you now that because all of your emotions are into her, when she rejects you, it's going to hit like a ton of bricks. You'll get depressed and will probably lose a lot of social confidence. Get out more, and meet new women. Regardless of what Hollywood says, there is NOT just one woman out there for you. That's not how we, as animals, work. We live to procreate, and because of that, we are compatible with a myriad of women. Get out and find new ones that you like. I promise she won't seem as "major" when you do.

Njord can provide tips on drawing her into you emotionally/physically/sexually etc.. but you're going to have to do a few things before you're even able to get to that point. If you respond with a post that actually shows you want her, but won't kill yourself if you don't get her, then maybe Njord will help you.

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ok Njord yep i totally agree with you it is hilarious and filoNaussieBoi well yeaz itz hilarious but in my opinion go for it Boi..go get ur gal...in other words good luck with everything concerning this gal...

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My bad with the thread title, obviously you have never heard of the song "same girl" by R. Kelly, but you cant edit thread titles on these forums.

I was actually having a bit of fun, somewhat a joke but I realise it was more of an inside thing, but still my bad for putting it there.

No I am not stupid enough to bloody think she is my potential wife, like I said it was this interesting line from an RnB song "Same Girl", but I do have crazy feelings for her.

Ok so I may not agree its not love, but its not lust either, I've known her since we were kids, and slowly overtime my feelings got stronger for her. And I feel like I need to tell her now, but I don't think a relationship would work. EDIT: Just yet. lol, I don't want a relationship in highschool, but I really like her. I'd rather wait after the end of school.

Yeah soz about confusion with thread title, but it really had no meaning, it was infact from a song, that whole album "Double Up" is quite funny.

Beggers can't be choosers.

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