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Old 07-03-2008, 02:35 PM
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Default I could really use some advice..

Hey guys. I feel kind of dumb for posting my problem on the internet, but yeah hopefully you guys have some advice.

So basically there was this guy, and we were really getting along well, and we hung out and stuff, but then he had to move away. Well, we probably would have gotten together if he didnt move, but anyways. We still talk and stuff and he recently told me that theres this girl he likes, a lot. I know i shouldnt be upset about it, but I cant help but he jealous of this girl who i dont even know. Hes just a really cool guy and stuff.

So do you guys think Im being dumb for being upset about it?
What do you guys think.
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Old 07-03-2008, 02:40 PM
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Nah, jealousy is natural for most people.
Jealousy itself is a silly thing, but there's nothing we can do to help it.
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Old 07-03-2008, 02:42 PM
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I hate being jealous. This girl is probably someone I would really get along with well.

Ugg. Im trying to be okay with it, but he keeps bringing it up, like we wants me to be jealous or something. Its driving me crazy!
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Old 07-06-2008, 01:00 PM
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I think that it's bound to happen, as he's moved away, but I understand why you'd be upset because I would too! Maybe he's just trying to move on, and I think you'd find it easier if you tried to aswell. But you definately aren't dumb for being upset, when you really like someone, friend or fancy them, it's always gutting when they move away or move on
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No thats not dumb..im feeling the same way right now and you will feel something against the girl becasue you had feelings for him
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Nah, jealousy is natural for most people.
Jealousy itself is a silly thing, but there's nothing we can do to help it.
No jealousy is natural for women. They want what they can't have and hate it when others have it, when it comes to men. I should know, I exploit this all of the time. One of the easiest ways to open up a woman is to walk up to her after having spoken with (good convo, laughing etc..) other beautiful women.
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Old 07-09-2008, 03:29 AM
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He's probably bringing it up to you a lot as he trusts you and thinks of you as a close friend, not to just rub it in your face.

I know you're bound to be upset by it, and yeah maybe a little jealous, it's natural. I can bet you now a lot of people feel like this.

I know it sounds harsh, but really you've got to move on.
There's no point in being like "oh if he stayed, we would have... etc"
He's moved away, and moving forward.
You'll always be friends.

Don't feel idiotic for being upset, because you're totally not!

Try your best to move on, it'll be a lot easier for you.
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