Me and this boy really like each other but theres one problem, hes an man whore. He slept over my house one night and the same night my friend slept over. and that was before we really liked each other...so my friend ended up giving him two hickeys and i forgave him for it cause were not like going out. and now hes going after my step sister. i filpped out on him and told him im pissed off at him. and hes still texting and flirting with her even after he told me he doesnt like her. and he even told me he said to her face that he didnt like her but i know hes lying. and i dont want him to break me and my step sisters relationship apart. and i dont want him to think i dont trust him, even though i really dont. so what should i do cause i considering just telling him to go with my step sister even though i really like him

If he is this most trouble at the beginning of the realationship he probably would not be a good boyfriend

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not true at all
they're ot together....so what the hell does he have to worry about

im a complete player when im not in a relationship
but im faithful when in one

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If he was really interested in you, would he still be going after your step-sister? :|
Wouldn't he be putting all his efforts into trying to begin a relationship with you?

Meh, it's totally up to you hun, but if he dates your step-sister, you'd more than likely still have feelings for him... Now if anything, I think that would be pretty damn awkward for everyone and could cause problems.

You are not even dating him and already you say you don't trust him.
Please explain why you would even want to begin a relationship with him when ALREADY you don't trust him.

Maybe speak to you step-sister and let her know the whole things bothering you, and you like him. I'm sure that she'll tell him herself to back off.

Even still though, in my opinion, it's not worth the hassle hun.

Get with someone who you trust as well as having feelings for, and preferably someone who doesn't flirt with a family member.

Making this as short as possible. I understand what you feel. My advice is.. Go and find someone better. If you dont trust him already.. dont go out with him. Move on and forget about him. If you were to go out with him, and you dont trust him, the relationship would be unstable. As for your step sister and him, it would be awkward seeing them. So try and convince your step sister to listen to you and not go out with him.
Hope this helps... - Lana <3

how long was your longest relationship out of curiousity?



but in response to the original post...I wouldn't go out with someone like that. I know someone like that and he's one of my good friends. but I didn't go out with him just because I don't think I could really trust him. i'm sure he's faithful when in a relationship but if he just made out with random people all the time then i'd just feel really uncomfortable.

that's just me though. remember...bros before hoes ^_~

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if you don't trust him, do you really want to date him? you'd always be wondering if he's gonna cheat on you or not... not a good way to be! here's a good site for advice on relationship drama BOMinc g'luck!