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Old 02-19-2008, 06:58 AM
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I say most of you guys who said, "brains" are fucken liars. Pretty much, majority of people are fucken shallow and LOOKS COUNT A WHOLE LOT. So those of you who said you would date that nerdy looking guy over the hottie sitting next to you, PLEASE!

I'm shallow and HONEST, so I pick the hottie of course. I'm not going to marry him, hell, I'm not even interested in a long-term relationship. A hottie has more experience is the whole, dating department anyways. I like a man who's aggressive, knows what he wants and how to get it, flirty, charming, etc. Can a nerd give me that? No. What can a nerd give me? Intelligence? That's only one thing.

Woah, honesty kicking in there. Gotta respect that one.

As for me? I don't actually give a damn about looks. My ex was the nerdy music type with glasses. Interestingly enough. Suited me at the time, since it made music classes all the more interesting. Turned out to be a flying jackass though. Well. He would've been flying if I had the strength to fight against him. But sadly, I only had a handbag at the time and no idea of tai chi moves to do, sooooo.
He didn't fit into the good looking category, if there's a category. Sure, we can dream about finding a "handsome prince" but in all honesty, for me as long as there's a spark... or a flame between me & him or a similiar sense of humor to mine and he accepts me for well, me and doesn't become all jackass-like or backstab me several times over with stuff he knows about me, then, well. I don't care what he looks like so long as he accepts me for who I am and what I've gone through to get to this sorta stage. Guess that's how I found my fiance.... through trust at first sight/meeting.

One reason why I don't go for the obvious good looking types is they usually turn out to be all players and you're more likely to get burned. That and I like a bit more intrigue darker types. Found my soul mate. He's half thai, half English.... obvious good looking types I find are too overly obvious... bit of mystery, man!
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Old 02-20-2008, 04:49 AM
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i woudlnt chooose a gf for those atributes, i would go for how does she makes me feel, if she is everything im not (so that she completes me) or if she can make me happy everytime im down, if she understands me, i wont goo for the looks cause thatss something u loose with the years, the inteligence is goo d but when it comes to feelings, inteligence is busted
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I'll be honest.

To begin with I'll go for looks, that's what attracts me. But if he turns out to be boring then I wouldn't go out with him.
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Old 02-22-2008, 02:00 PM
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honestly, a guy would have to have both looks and brains. i could not and would not go out with a guy if he was not decent looking. but i also would never go out with a guy if his brain was the size of a pea pod. so for me, it's both.
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Um, brains. Duh?
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Both. He'd need to be decent looking for me to be attracted to him in the first place, and if he was an idiot then that'd be that.
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