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02-19-2008, 10:16 AM
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Im confused...(does he still want to be with me?)
Im confused.
I havent seen or talked to him in 3 days, i cant call him because his mom doesnt like me, and he probably cant call for that same reason, and he hasnt showed up and lives 10 minuets walking distance away from me. On Valentines day he was happy to see me and the day after Valentines day he was also. we walked downtown together and were flirting. But im wondering if he still loves me because he said he loved me on friday when i was with him. He's also bipolar, i dont know if that has anything to do with this and also thinks hes not good enough when i told him a billion times he is. Does he still want to be with me? because im so confused. I love him to death...id do anything for him... I need answers... please... Thanks for your time  
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02-19-2008, 10:50 AM
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uhh, yeaaaaa.....im sure the bipolar plays a big part
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02-19-2008, 12:59 PM
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I confuzzled, are you 2 like going out? :S
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02-19-2008, 03:18 PM
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I agree. Bipolar is a tricky thing where moods are concerned. But its probably bound to have a major influence on his actions after like the main day. From what I know, guys' don't tend to say 'I love you' just for the sheer hell of the moment. Love isn't something you toss around. If its being tossed around wily-nily, I'd sooner say its Lust. Love... Its precious... and sometimes depending on the guy, it takes a lot of courage just to say it, particularly not to a family member. My point: If he told you, he loves you on Valentines Day, or whenever he told you, he still loves you. If there's a spark between you, which I assume there is, because you mentioned the flirting, then you would know, because you know him, who he is. Not of Bipolar, or anything, but more so because you love him, you accept him as him. no matter what the bipolar changes. Love isn't something you can fall in and out of quickly. If you fall out of it very quickly, then you know it wasn't actually true love. It was Lust in disguise. Email him or something if you can't call due to parental disapproval.
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03-18-2008, 05:01 PM
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i know how you feel.
my boyfriend has bipolar also but im finally learning to cope with it. to be honest, i doubt it means he doesnt want to be with you anymore - he probably just needs time to clear out whatever is going through his mind right now. just give him time till HE'S ready to talk or to see you, dont rush him. I used to push my boyfriend all the time, until it finally hit me that he needs his own space, and that he may not wanna talk to me about everything going on in his life at this moment in time. I think thats probably the best policy though, chick!
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