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Old 02-23-2008, 06:16 PM
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My boyfriend's name is Will and I know for sure that he likes me but i also know for sure that he likes my best friend, Kay too. Kay would never go out with him because she would not do that to me and moreover, she doesnt like him very much. So do you think i should be bothered about it and i think eventually break up with him because i'm too jealous or wat? I don't know what to do right now...
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Old 02-24-2008, 07:35 AM
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Hmm. A tricky situation. I think it'd be best to ask him about it, to be honest and get your feelings out into the open, before anything untoward happens. Mistrust and Distrust in a relationship can turn what you have into something extremely sour in very short time, should you make the wrong decisions. He's in a relationship with you, right? But since this relationship sounds like its still blossoming, not as strong as it will be, in time.Think of it like a test of truth and approach it wisely. Communication is a gem in such situations. You will probably find that you've misinterpretated his feelings towards her and have nothing to worry about, if you know for sure your friend doesn't care for him in return. Be careful though, you never know what you're missing, until its gone. Hope my advice is helpful. Good luck.
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Old 02-25-2008, 10:03 AM
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Maybe you could all have a mutual relationship
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Old 02-25-2008, 03:24 PM
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That just gives me dodgy mental images, heh.
(No offence to thread maker, I hope my previous poster's advice came in helpful).
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I would dump him.
You shouldn't have to compete with someone when you're in a relationship.
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Old 03-08-2008, 09:48 PM
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I would confront him about it. You have to be honest in a relationship. I personally would not stay with the guy if he liked another girl, especially my best friend. He should like you and only you. Who knows if he likes other girls and what he would do if those girls like him back.
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I would confront him about it. You have to be honest in a relationship. I personally would not stay with the guy if he liked another girl, especially my best friend. He should like you and only you. Who knows if he likes other girls and what he would do if those girls like him back.
yeah so true... she's not the one going out with him, YOU are so he shouldnt do that to you...
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Old 03-24-2008, 03:55 PM
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Just make sure his priorities are in the right order. You don't want to be a second string girlfriend. If he is treating you right and he is loyal u can't knock the guy for who he likes.


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