ok, usually when guys tease u they like u, at least a lil bit. and guys tease anyways, so how are u supposed to know if they really like u or if ur just a friend????? i've been asked out once but we didnt date and he's my b. friend still but idk if we ever will go out or not. i've always thought y would guys like me? and then other gurls r tellin me that the guys like me and i'm like WHAT?? and they're tellin me i'm pretty and u know, somtimes i dont feel pretty. i dont want to b a flirt, but how do u let a guy know u like him w/out him thinkin ur annoying? i tease everybody, guys included, that's just me i dont want them all thinkin that i like them, they're friends, right now i dont really like anyone. im confused with it all. hopefully u all got sum sense out of this and that i'm not alone on this

Njord is confused on what exactly is your question.

No, a tease or ribbing insult isn't always a flirt.
However, it can be..but if a guy does this 24/7 without telling you he likes you, then he's immature (or ball-less) and not worth your time.

If you want to know how to tell if a guy likes you, then here's the secret.



He'll tell you.

flirt with him, try getting a tiny bit physical....maybe touch here and there and see his response
look at his face and actions, tease back

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u really think they would tell u. u would tell a gurl u liked her, even if ur scared of rejection. i'll take the advice, even he really likes me and is worth it, he'll eventually tell me thanks!!!

what if he teases in general like it's his personality and i always tease back no matter who it is, that's just me.

That's the point. Guys/girls shouldn't fear rejection. It's just a fact of life, and you have to deal with it and move on.

exactly!! but the guys at my school seem scared to ask any of us out. pssh, oh well, it's their loss right??

Well, you have to give hints that you like him. When I talk to a girl, I look for hints. If I don't get the hints, then I get really nervous and lose motivation. I'm not sure what kind of signals you need to give though :\ Talk with him a lot, smile!, just talk and get to know each other. I'm in the same position you're in, but it's a little harder for me, lol. Those are just stuff I look for.

well yeah, ur the guy so i guess it is a lil harder. i wont ever ask a guy out, he has to ask me. i do give "hints" sometimes, but i also don't want to b known as someone who flirts with every guy that comes along. i dont want to annoy him either, i have a friend who likes a guy and just annoys him to death. lol, so, same position as me, heh it sucks sometimes. im not sure what to tell u about knowing if she likes u back, because every girl/guy is different. good luck

These are the guys you don't need. He's scared and ball-less. A man shouldn't have fear when approaching a girl he likes, even if he doesn't know her. That's what the approach is for.

Of course you can go after guys yourself, but most of them will probably pussy out. However, some guys are extremely flattered when girls ask them out.