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Failure To Comply · #21 (**permalink**) 04-11-2008, 08:17 PM

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Originally Posted by Jessica_Lynn

Ok all u douche bags here talking about "emo is a cry for attention" "emo is an attempt at goth" "emo is unattractive and pathetic" need to shut up, she was asking a simple question about it being weird that she hasnt kissed any one by the age of 15 and you are all making her into a soup can and labeling her as a pathetic attention whore. Emo is technically a cry for attention but usually emos have crappy home lives, or atleast the real emos and thats what causes them to act that way. And to some people emo is attractive, hell im emo and well, several of the guys i hang out with know it but yet they still treat me like a normal person. It all depends on your surroundings and how many douche bags and dickweeds that you allow to get u down further than u already are.

And no honey its not pathetic that you havnt kissed anyone yet, i wish i would have waited and kissed the right one. But if you want to open up some more, have a party and play a nice little game of spin the bottle, it sounds weird but it actually works because it makes you feel more free and open to new things...plus its good practice

Lets try to calm down

Njord · #22 (**permalink**) 04-11-2008, 09:12 PM

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Originally Posted by Jessica_Lynn

Ok all u douche bags here talking about "emo is a cry for attention" "emo is an attempt at goth" "emo is unattractive and pathetic" need to shut up,

Will you please read dumbass? Njord gave her solid advice on the subject, regardless of what Njord may have said about her lifestyle. She rejected truth and wisdom with "LOLZ, I DIDN'T WANNA HEAR DAT." Obviously she wasn't asking for advice but looking for e-sympathy and HTML pats on the back for her pathetic situation. Attention whore. Thanks.

Now, I would suggest you pay attention next time before ranting. You didn't receive the verbal beating Njord should have given you, but next time, he won't be so forgiving.

Jessica_Lynn · #23 (**permalink**) 04-12-2008, 08:29 PM

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Originally Posted by Failure To Comply

Lets try to calm down

Sorry, its a habit, when I read something like that, when someone is making someone feel worse about themselves I defend the one being verbally abused. Mainly because Ive seen first hand verbal abuse is enough to make you want to die. Ive been verbally abused for 11 years now and then my friend, she was hurt really bad, she was already depressed, and then something her abusive step dad said pushed her to the limit and made her kill herself

Failure To Comply · #24 (**permalink**) 04-12-2008, 11:36 PM

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Originally Posted by Jessica_Lynn

Sorry, its a habit, when I read something like that, when someone is making someone feel worse about themselves I defend the one being verbally abused. Mainly because Ive seen first hand verbal abuse is enough to make you want to die. Ive been verbally abused for 11 years now and then my friend, she was hurt really bad, she was already depressed, and then something her abusive step dad said pushed her to the limit and made her kill herself

Yeah, I get what you mean, but I don't think cussing someone out over a forum site is gonna help

DagoFlip · #25 (**permalink**) 04-13-2008, 09:10 AM

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Originally Posted by Jessica_Lynn

Ok all u douche bags here talking about "emo is a cry for attention" "emo is an attempt at goth" "emo is unattractive and pathetic" need to shut up, she was asking a simple question about it being weird that she hasnt kissed any one by the age of 15 and you are all making her into a soup can and labeling her as a pathetic attention whore. Emo is technically a cry for attention but usually emos have crappy home lives, or atleast the real emos and thats what causes them to act that way. And to some people emo is attractive, hell im emo and well, several of the guys i hang out with know it but yet they still treat me like a normal person. It all depends on your surroundings and how many douche bags and dickweeds that you allow to get u down further than u already are.

and when you say "all u douche bags", you mean Njord...one guy....not all
because nobody else has said anything negative about emos

Njord · #26 (**permalink**) 04-14-2008, 09:11 AM

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Originally Posted by Jessica_Lynn

Ok all u douche bags here talking about "emo is a cry for attention" "emo is an attempt at goth" "emo is unattractive and pathetic" need to shut up

Hmm..Prove Njord wrong.

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she was asking a simple question about it being weird that she hasnt kissed any one by the age of 15

Njord believes he answered that question, and then provided solutions to the problem.

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and you are all making her into a soup can and labeling her as a pathetic attention whore.

Prove Njord wrong. oh wait...no..you proved..Njord..right..hmm..look here.

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Emo is technically a cry for attention

Oh..damn.

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but usually emos have crappy home lives, or atleast the real emos and thats what causes them to act that way.

Yeah, and to cry about it makes it all better. Get real, there are people with way more lives than faggy emo's in America. You people know nothing of the world outside your pathetic angst filled door. Show me one emo over 30 and you'll have proved me wrong. However, you won't. Want to know why? Because once you grow the fuck up, you'll realize, no one gives a fuck about you or your bitching.

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And to some people emo is attractive,

Apparently she isn't one of these "attractive emos" or she would've been kissed by now. Correct?

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hell im emo and well, several of the guys i hang out with know it but yet they still treat me like a normal person. It all depends on your surroundings and how many douche bags and dickweeds that you allow to get u down further than u already are.

You are basically admitting your life is pathetic. Why do you let anyone get you down anyways? From your beliefs, Njord guesses everyone in the hood should be cutting and listening to Dashboard Confessional hmm? So fucking stupid. Get over yourself.

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And no honey its not pathetic that you havnt kissed anyone yet

Yes it is, and she knows it is, or she wouldn't have posted it here.

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i wish i would have waited and kissed the right one.

LOL, it's not like having sex stupid. It's a kiss. God you people just keep blaring stupidity with each post. Oh wait, and then let's just fuck over this statement with the next one.

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But if you want to open up some more, have a party and play a nice little game of spin the bottle, it sounds weird but it actually works because it makes you feel more free and open to new things...plus its good practice

Hmm..Now if her first kiss is during a game of spin the bottle, then Njord doubts that her first kiss would be with the " right one" would it? God..
And Njord swears he suggested the same thing..wait let me see..

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Be sociable, don't put yourself out like a slut, but be friendly with everyone you meet. Be humorous, witty, and most of all, yourself.

Yep..Njord did.

Any more challenges to Njord's superior wisdom?

DagoFlip · #27 (**permalink**) 04-14-2008, 10:21 AM

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Originally Posted by Njord

Any more challenges to Njord's superior wisdom?

what came before the "Big Bang" (<--theory)?

xD

Dark Inferno · #28 (**permalink**) 04-20-2008, 02:27 PM

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Originally Posted by Emo_Love_<3

I'm 15.
I haven't had my first kiss yet.
Lots of friends have.
And it's embarrassing to say I haven't.
Ive had a boyfriend before but it didnt last long and nothing happened with him.
I feel like im pressured to find someone.
I know loads of people who are in the same boat as me.
But that doesn't change how I feel.
What do you think?
Do I sound pathetic?

No. I didn't have my first kiss until I was 18. Sure, a lot of people were getting theirs, mine was (admittedly) terrible. But when the time is right, the chips will fall into place, you'll see.

LanaK999 · #29 (**permalink**) 06-30-2008, 11:28 AM

Heeeeey,
For those who responded to 'Emo_Love_<3' I think you were a little harsh >.<
I like you shouldnt be rushed into anything. But you should open yourself into opportunities. I've made out many times and im 14, but that doesnt make me any better. I think you should be more out going with guys and just have fun. Your first kiss isnt always a big scene or the perfect moment, trust me. I'd say this isnt about kissing. It's about confidence and opening up, and allowing yourself into great relationship and living with no regrets. Go out and have fun with guys, kiss or no kiss. I love going out with my emo guys and not worrying about having awkward moments. I suggest you go out with some of your guy friends that you are comfortable with and just be a little flirty. (: (L) Eventually, your kiss will happen and you shouldnt be embarrassed about. Just dont go overboard trying to get attention or force yourself to do anything but have fun. things go on better when they come naturally. Respond to this and.. probably my advice isnt the best but.. yea.
- Lanaaaa <3
P.S I love skinnies

Tehee.

Kanevra · #30 (**permalink**) 07-01-2008, 07:47 PM

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Originally Posted by Emo_Love_<3

I'm 15.
I haven't had my first kiss yet.
Lots of friends have.
And it's embarrassing to say I haven't.
Ive had a boyfriend before but it didnt last long and nothing happened with him.
I feel like im pressured to find someone.
I know loads of people who are in the same boat as me.
But that doesn't change how I feel.
What do you think?
Do I sound pathetic?

Maybe if your weren't emo you wouldn't have this problem...

Did you ever think of that?

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