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Old 04-28-2008, 02:31 PM
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OK, basically i just want some views from others (well probably from other females)
I've been single for quite a while now. I dont really like it but i am ok to wait for the right one to come along. I feel great when i have a partner, i know im ready. However past relationships havent been so great because i ffind it very hard to give guys what they want. What i mean by this is relating to the sexual stuff. Sexual contact etc. I feel uncomfortable with the touching etc. I felt like this towards my recent ex and i really did like him, but for some reason i cant bare the stuff that guys do when they start to love me. I know its natural but for some reason it doesnt seem that way to ME when the time comes. I've never felt totally attracted to many guys (wont say all) and ive often wandered if sexuality comes into this, but i dunno. Could it just be fear or embarrasement or just general fear of sex? I kidna get embarrased with sexual stuff (not sure why) and im afraid that all the relationships will turn out to be the same because i wouldnt let go a bit with the natural stuff that comes when the guy starts to feel in love with you. Its like i see a relationship different than a guy does. Its hard to explain.
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Old 04-28-2008, 05:33 PM
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You just got to open up... You seem so eager to be ready, why not just wait a bit?
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Old 04-29-2008, 12:38 PM
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I could be the same in months. Well i feel happier when im with someone, maybe this would change after ive found the right one?
lol you're male
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Old 04-30-2008, 12:15 PM
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Oh sorry. You're female?
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You sound gay. Seriously, look into that. If that's not the case, then you aren't ready or your boyfriends suck with their hands. Come find Njord, you'll never be nervous again.
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Old 04-30-2008, 06:05 PM
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Oh sorry. You're female?
Read what I said again, look at my avatar, and ask me again :P
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You sound gay. Seriously, look into that. If that's not the case, then you aren't ready or your boyfriends suck with their hands. Come find Njord, you'll never be nervous again.
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honestly, maybe your just not ready for a physical relationship. start with small stuff, and move upward as you get more comfortable. if boyfriends are demanding the big stuff, then they aren't worth it....just try not to learn that the hard way...
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i think that u shudnt rush this kinda thing! if u dont feel comfortable with it! b straight up! dont feel like u have to do it cause that will make u feel worse if u feel u have to do it! take your time and move foward when u feel ready and dnt let nethng or ne1 make u think otherwise! :]
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