At lunch a week or so ago, I sat with a bunch of my guy friends and I was the only girl. We had been sitting there for awhile, and the guys had been talking about sports and stuff. I hadn't really been saying much because I was looking over a study guide, but I saw out of the corner of my eye that one of the guys was looking at me. I turned and looked at him and he just smiled and shook his head and looked away. Then a guy across the table looked at me, smiled and asked him if he needed "liquid courage" and then looked back over at me, still smiling. I don't have a clue what that means.
So a few nights after that, I saw the guy and another one of his friends, and they were both joking around and saying stuff to me like, "Oh you better watch out, he's gonna start hitting on you." or "You know he's checking you out right?" Then last night, I went out to eat with a big group of people, and the guy started out at the opposite end of the table, but as the night went on, he ended up sitting across from me. I caught him looking at me a couple times, and if I said anything to him about it, he'd just smile and shake his head. Then he gave me part of his food.
I've seen him and talked to him several times since then. Sometimes he's a little flirty, sometimes he barely speaks, sometimes I'll catch him looking at me from across the room, sometimes he'll walk by me and not even acknowledge me. I talked to my friend about it, and she thinks he likes me, and I thought he might too, but I'm not so sure anymore. And it sucks because I'm starting to have feelings for him, and I don't know how he feels about me. I have very little time to figure it out because he leaves tomorrow for the summer and I won't see him again until August. What should I do?

If he's leaving, why start something?

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He'll be back next year...I just don't know if I should say anything to him about all this stuff before he leaves or wait until we come back or even if I should talk to him about it at all.

Wait until next year.

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No point now, he was too much of a pussy to tell you how he felt (if he did feel anything) and now he has to leave.
Have sex with him, then he'll be sure to remember you. But as far as trying to start a relationship...nah. Just give him a good lasting impression, and tell him he owes me.

i really dont think i could have put it better myself

i always remember girls that act this way xD

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Yeah I don't want to be that kind of girl.

Then get over it.
Problem solved.

Trust me, from a guys perspective. He is completely into you. He is obviously nervous around you, or tries to act a certain way around you. Most of us guys believe, we need a girls attention first before talking to them, not so. Anyway, judging by the way he doesn't acknowledge you sometimes, its to show that he's not obsessed with you, or to over straight forward. He's waiting for a good time to talk to you. Or for you to make a move. My advice, go for it and make a move. Girls gotta do a bit of the work.

Unfortunately, he's already gone home now. He's been gone for about a week and a half. I sent him a message through Facebook to see if he made it home safely, but the conversation didn't go very far. All he said was that he made it home, and he asked if I got home ok. I don't live very far from school, so I joked that I got lost on my way. Apparently he didn't find that funny because I never heard anything else from him.