I've been having issues with using the word "friend". Like what exactly would you consider a "true friend"? It's been bothering me for the longest while. And this only came about because i've been through a lot of stuff with people who led me to believe they were my true friends. Honestly I dont know who my friends are or not. So i try my best to stay away from the word.
Even though i try my best to stay away from using the word friend. And stay away from being close to people.
What i long for the most is a true friendship. Someone I'm able to tell almost everything to without them judging me or walking away from me.
Is it silly to want such a thing at the age i'm at now? (17)

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How did they "lead you to believe"? If they wanted to be friends, it just looks to me as you pushed them away.

What do you consider "judging"? And why do you care so much about what others think? I think you are worried too much about this, and you just need to flow natural, and take advantage of the things that happen to you. Such as, if you meet someone that you get along with, try to make it into a friendship. Ask him/her over to your house? Try to do stuff with them. It's just like any other relationship. It takes years to form, and might not even work out. You just have to go with the flow, and try to make things happen, instead of waiting.

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I dont know. I noticed I do have a tendency to push away when I'm afraid.
So about the people who made me believe they were my friends? Er. wow i kinda forgot it is pretty personal. But who cares.
What "friend" tries to help someone get over a relationship by basically taking their....virginity away? It also flows into relationships. Friendships and relationships are the hardest subjects for me. I stopped believing in people because someone decided to tell me they care a lot about me but then take something away from me. The relationship worked out that way. Thats what the people did. So i think I did push them away...

And when I said judging. I meant it as you're beign yourself and people are trying to change the way you are. They criticize every view about you.

I dont know why i let what people say get to me so much. But it does. And thats why I'm the way i am i guess ><
sorry if this made no sense.

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No one can take your virginity, you have to give it to them.

You can consider me naive, but I have never seen someone like this, and even the people that could be like this, I try to avoid. Which you should do the same.

It made a bit, but you could have thought this out a bit more.

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And I'm willing to accept willing female participants

But, a true friend is someone you can trust your life with

Sadly, most don't realize it, but most people that you consider your "friends" are merely just acquaintances who wouldn't act as a true friend in most situations

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True friends are hard to find.....

The way you find them depends on you.....

I usually look for the ones that will always tell me the truth even if its going to hurt my feelings and we fall out.....because i know that soon enough ill think to myself hey they were right what a numpty and everythings cool again after a few appologies......

They are always there a shoulder to cry on, laugh with etc.....

friendship is just as hard as any other relationship but u dont really have to work hard at friendships........

Iv always struggled with friendships but as you get older change and so does friendships sometimes you can lose some like i have in the past 6 months but then what sort of best friend sleeps with yur BF??


DOes that help in any way????

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LIFE Ha Its a funny old thing.

Haha, willing female participants? Now i kind of understand the name you were given XP.

and Yeah, I just recently started realizing the difference between friends and acquaintances... There are a lot more acquaintances than friends. Which kind of makes sense.

Sorry if I was confusing.

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I see you still really aren't over it..Do you think you could ever forgive your best friend? Or even your ex? *this is still on the topic*

and yes you helped. You've been helping a lot since i started talkign to you XP

<3 Devie <3

No it hurts like mad that someone you think love's you could do something like that 2 u.....I will never be able to forgive her....I cant even look at her without wanting to punch her!!!.....as for my ex well as long he leaves me alone he is safe!!!....

I like to help and im gald i am Makes life seem worthwhile!!!!!

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LIFE Ha Its a funny old thing.

I think i sort of have the same rage...but at the same time not because they didnt sleep with my ex best friend...they just dated her XP.

I'm pretty sure he'll leave you alone. I mean he IS leaving for the army correct? XP. Oh how i wish I had those amazing skills.

About the whole friendship thing..Honestly I think I like having online friendships a bit more than close to home friendships. Like I understand the want to actually meet that friend. But its quite easier to be myself over the net. XP.

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