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Old 04-11-2008, 08:17 PM
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ok i live in a house with my parents little sister 17 and my little brother 9 Im the oldest in my house and I have an older sister whose 22

Lately i have been feeling really used and unapreciated.
my parents they are mostly mean to me and kind of look down on me until they want to barrow money or want a favor from me. If I dont do it they talk about me and treat me like shit. Before I had a job or a car of my own they never took me anywhere never really gave me shit or anything basically treated me like a step child..

I have had to ride the city bus everywhere I needed to go when I had parents with cars

i've even walked miles home from school in the rain and snow only to get there and meet me mom little sister and brother at the door just gettin home. their excuse was "well we only have one car so we couldnt pick you up".

my parents make me responsible for picking up my sister up from school getting her to work on time and making sure im home to babysit my brother after school after a get off work from 5am-2pm my sister always has an attitude with me when i dont do what she wants me to do and doesnt talk to me but everytime she needs something i am the first person she runs

to,...every last one of my family members from uncles aunts cousins parents sisters and brother they are only nice to me and call me when they want or need something from me and treat me like shit when they dont need me i dont know what to do i just wanna kill them all[/size]
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Old 04-11-2008, 08:21 PM
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Don't let them treat you that way. If they want a favor, say "where was my favor?". It's all simple. You could do this one of two ways. 1) Treat them the way they treat you. 2) Keep going and let karma bite them in the ass.

It's all up to you, but it is still nice to vent sometime, so feel free to add me on MSN or AIM. I had to move out because my father was treating me the same way.
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Tell them how you feel?
Iunno, communication is the key!
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Cry more, attention whore. Stop giving out favors and move out.
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Old 04-14-2008, 03:47 PM
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Cry more, attention whore. Stop giving out favors and move out.
I'm tired of your negative comments on these forums. Not everyone who asks for advice is an "attention whore". And she is a teenager, so she obviously can't move out.
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I'm tired of your negative comments on these forums. Not everyone who asks for advice is an "attention whore". And she is a teenager, so she obviously can't move out.
i second that
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I'm tired of your negative comments on these forums.
Ask Njord if he cares. Go ahead, ask him.

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And she is a teenager, so she obviously can't move out.
If she's the oldest sibling, and her little sister is 17...Hmm..Well I think it's safe to say she's old enough to move out.
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If she's the oldest sibling, and her little sister is 17...Hmm..Well I think it's safe to say she's old enough to move out.
finally, Njord comes through and actually has a point, for once.

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Ask Njord if he cares. Go ahead, ask him.

If she's the oldest sibling, and her little sister is 17...Hmm..Well I think it's safe to say she's old enough to move out.
Ok, so she could be old enough to move out. But again, the negativity isn't appreciated, and I would like it if you stopped.
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Ok, so she could be old enough to move out. But again, the negativity isn't appreciated, and I would like it if you stopped.
You didn't ask Njord if he cared. Njord'll give you a hint:

He doesn't.
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