How can you tell if someone just wants to be friends with "benefits" (Devie i think u no what mean by that) or is genuinly interested in you as say gf material?????

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Oh yeah i know what you mean by that.
Are you talking about who I think you're talking about ^_^ *imagine me with a HUGE smile on me face when i say that XP*
Hey can i call you Nia???
SO back to ur answer. I guess its kind of hard to know if its just friends with benefits or bf/gf stuff. I had this conversation with a friend of mine earlier this year.
Friends with benefits are people who have feelings for someone else but dotn know if their feelings are strong enough to allow them to be in a relationship. I mean you have to first ask yourself, How much do you like this person? Is it just sexual attraction? or is it actual personality? Because friends when being freinds with benefits, there has to be some type of feeling involved or its just wrong >< *i know your side of the sotry already* crap this post is long. sorry if this didnt help at all. But to sum it up, you ask urself questions such as the ones i gave you. XP

<3 Devie, your loving friend from across the ocean XP <3

Yeah im talking about the guy i spent the day with the other day...

You can call me what ever you like..just one question..why Nia??Lol

I guess its kinda hard to establish what will happen....im not sure if guys minds work the same as ours *if any male would like to enlighten me feel free* because iv been brought up knowing this sayin "guys only think with their dicks" *again guys correct me if im wrong* hmmmmm i will ask myself some questions and come to a conclusion some time soon......

Im not sure how he feels he seems quite distant with those sort of things i think i will have to get very drunk and confront him at my party this weekend!!! lol

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GRAH I WANNA GO TO UR PARTY AND GET DRUNK TOO!!!!! >< i feel so left out *tear* Lol, i dont see how getting drunk would solve ur problem >< hehez. but then again im a year younger than you so what do i know XP.

Happy bday in advance *just incase i end up not being able to say it on ur bday*

HAHA, i grew up with that same quote "Guys only think with their dicks" actually my parents still say that. XP. so it'd be best to get a guys help on this. XP.

And i chose Nia beacause i was thinking of ur name and the original is too long *im pretty lazy* and Tan reminds me of my ex boyfriend Tanner *called him Tan* so im like hmm Nia! and its cutes! hehez

<3 Devie <3

Hehe well if you can get here for saturday the 30th of may (this saturday) you can come to my party.....lol i think thats a bit impossible I'll try and come on here after iv gone to some nightclubs after my party and post som random drunken measages lol...

Awwwwww I think Nia is cute to noone has ever thought of that before its better than being called Tan or Tanny lmao my lil bro is realli funni and he wakes me up by shoutin TANNY WANNY WAKE UP YOU LAZY COW lol and he's only five.;....... Lol any way guys can you give me some help on this thread >????????????????????????????????????????????????? ?????????????????????????????????????????????????? ?????????????????????????????????????????????????? ??????

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