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Old 06-23-2008, 07:45 PM
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It's a long story but I'll shorten it. My ex boyfriend and i are really close friends, him and his most recent girlfriend broke up or "took a break" and hes heart broken. Hes really upset and he comes to me a lot whenever hes having issues.
-On a side note, we both still really like each other-
He's really sad but apparently he's doing a lot better because i'm here to help him..and I'm glad to be able to help, but even though I still really like him I want him to get back with his ex because he seems to believe hes really happy with her and says he loves her. And I want him to be happy..but at the same time i really dont want him to get back with her because now that they arent together we're able to actually talk like before we dated. He has time to spend talking to me and I dont feel so left out anymore. When they were dating he never had much time to talk to me because they were always making plans...Anyway i need help. I dont know if im in the wrong or not. And if i am, what do i do?

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Old 06-27-2008, 06:54 AM
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Don't give him advice on his situation unless he asks for it. Get his mind off the relationship when he's with you.
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Old 06-30-2008, 12:46 PM
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Uhmm. Well, you give him advice for his ex because you like to make him happy, but you dont want them together, and you do like him. Well, ask him who he likes more. Dont give him advice to get with his gf if it will only lead to them going back together again, meaning you'd be left out and everything. From what i understand is that he's kind of using you Like, thats mean to take advice from someone when you're sad and then when everything is happy, you're not even in the picture anymore. I think its unfair and he would be ignoring you if you continue giving him advice for his girlfriend. Arent you jealous or something? I'd be, and this happened to me before. Tell him how you feel, make him promise that you'd stay close even if they are together, or make him get his mind off of his most recent gf, and go out with him again. Hopefully this helps.
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