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Old 12-17-2007, 11:29 AM
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This is a very delicate situation... On one hand, I understand your parents, I would probably think the same if I were in their situation: if it happened once, who knows what other employees are there, and what other mistakes will the school board do anymore???
On the other hand, you can't always possibly detect such sick people, you might know them for years and think they are perfectly normal until you discover such things! So, as long as he's gone...

I don't know. Perhaps you should tell them all these arguments... Either way, DO tell them! It will be worse if they would find out from somewhere else about it!
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Old 12-27-2007, 05:47 AM
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Tell them. Let them yell, let them threaten to beat them all, let them be parents. Anyone would do the same. Any man would kill the one who would do such things to his kid, any woman would just want to strangle the monster. This is horrible and the school do have their fault in this misery.
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Old 02-23-2008, 03:30 PM
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thats rly horrible amd im sorry but you should tell your parents and once they calm down explian your current situation and tell them how you rly want to stay at that school they might understand.
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Old 02-25-2008, 06:09 AM
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Omg josh im so sorry that's really sick and people like that should be locked up

you should just tell your parents to let you make the decision. and that since the dean is gone, there isn't any more problems...

Agreed. Sorry to hear that. You are strong, in the emotional sense and in the inner mental sense. It must take a lot of courage to admit that it happened, particuarly to your parents and to us.
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ok so here is the deal... a lot of my friends have had this problem...tell your parents EXACTLY what happened...they need to know every detail. Then tell them that he is gone and you love that school you are going to and wouldn't want to go anywhere else. then just sit down and talk to them about all the options.. i'm sure they will hear out and agree with you!
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Old 06-14-2008, 05:49 PM
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ok so here is the deal... a lot of my friends have had this problem...tell your parents EXACTLY what happened...they need to know every detail. Then tell them that he is gone and you love that school you are going to and wouldn't want to go anywhere else. then just sit down and talk to them about all the options.. i'm sure they will hear out and agree with you!
Totally agree. They just want to be there for you, but parents automatically freak out over these things. Just know that they love you and they want the absolute best for you. (: <3
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Well Since ive been in the same situation 'Numerous' Times ( umm Yes O_O) Im gonna tell you what i did..

I was sexually Abused more than 5 times And i never spoke to anyone about it..I got frustrated so i knew i had to do something so i actually sat with my parents and told them everything that happened and i told them every deatail..Yes offcourse that was difficult but after doing that I was very relieved and felt safe..And i know youd feel the same..Never be scared to tell your parents about what happened because if you dont you'll end up being abused again ( Like my case) Never wait to long before you make the decision and please make the right one.Maybe you feel like its your fault this happened to you but dont walk on that road coz deep inside you you knows thats not true..Be positive and be straight forward to your parents..Take care..

I Hope the best of luck to you..
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wow.
i kno how u feel to some extent. i was raped by my uncle when i was 10 and i never told anyone except my 18 year old cousin who says if i dont tell than he is. i say just be open and tell them that its not just their decision. im sorry.
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and i never told anyone except my 18 year old cousin
You just told a bunch of strangers on the interwebz.
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