I was sexually abused by my dean, the person who watched my dorm, my freshman year and never told anyone. That was two years ago, just this year I told one of my friends and my Godfather and my Godfather told our headmaster what happened. Granted the person has been fired due to an incident with other people. Now, they have to call my parents and tell them what happened, and I never told my parents what happened cause I know how they are going to react. They are going to pull me out of school.

Anyone have any ideas how to approach them and tell them not to?

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Omg josh im so sorry that's really sick and people like that should be locked up

you should just tell your parents to let you make the decision. and that since the dean is gone, there isn't any more problems...

Sorry to hear that.

I think jess gave some good advice. You just need to try to be straight forward with them. Let them know what it is you want and see what happens.

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Wow, that's terrible.


There's really now way to sugarcoat that. I'd try to be as honest as possible. But you need to remind them that you still have to stay in school and get your education, regardless of what happened.

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That is what everyone is telling me, but I can't. I have held it in for two years, and I don't want to let it out still. Plus my parents are irrational...

I just don't know what to do.

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I hope he goes to jail but know one deserves to be sexually abused. Just tell your parents what happened, but re-assure them that you will keep holding on strong.

Believe me I WOULD be irrational if such things happened to my kid. yes, TELL them about this. Remind them about the fact you wish to continue to study there, but do tell them about this. It would make me too sad to know my kid hid such things from me. They love you a lot and would be hurt if they would find about this from someone else. Believe me bad news travels fast

You should definitely tell them.

It's possible the headmaster will call them anyway, so you might want them to be prepared for this. The jerk no longer works there and maybe you can convince them to say the appropriate things to your headmaster, like 'who else works at your institution' and so on.

If they don't know about this, they might flip out and their first reaction may be getting you out of there.