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Stupid Girl · #11 (**permalink**) 11-23-2007, 05:35 PM

They're idiots. Sex isn't like taking a walk in the park. Its something that takes love and commitment. It's an emotional bond not to be taken lightly. You should've give up your virginity too soon just to look good in front of your friends. You'll just end up regretting it. It's none of their businesses anyway.

Dark Inferno · #12 (**permalink**) 02-15-2008, 06:50 PM

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Originally Posted by Spontanious

what am i to do, i want to have sex but im not sure if im ready, and this is the age where everyone is talking about it, i dont know what to do.. yes i wanna be like everywun else.. it sucks when u are the only virgin everyone looks at you different..

Uh... my advice would be to follow your instincts. Don't do so just because the crowd has different perceptions on what's in. Besides... if you just do so because you want to be considered accepted, or because everyone else has "done it" apparently, you are more likely to get hurt emotionally that way. Seriously, its not worth it ... to leap when you know you're not ready 'cause there's always that haunting possibility of the truth(which is likely to happen) that you find out after its happened, that really - they haven't done so, 'cause they weren't ready themselves and didn't wish to be targeted, like yourself.

killy750 · #13 (**permalink**) 02-20-2008, 04:44 AM

why u have that need to be like everyone else? its not like that, u have to be urself, as the way u want urself to be, u dont have to change because of everyone else.
And as for the sex, well don thurry it up, if u do something bad may happend and u will regret it, take it easy, and do it with someone u love at first time, don't do it with someone u may not know well

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