How old are you?
And, if you are not sure if you are ready, then don't do it.

Honestly. If your friends make you feel bad because you haven't had sex, you really need new friends.
Sex is something you should discover at your own pace, when you're ready. And when you've found the right person.

im 14. and i know .. that i should find new friends but its just soo hard
its like my first year in highschool so im so confused about things, theres this guy i like.. and i want to lose my virginity to him but i dont know if im too ready
cuz i know right now im thinking in my head im ready.. but when it comes to the actual moment i get scared.. im so young and im already going through these things
march break i almost lost it to my first love.. i was at his house and i got naked and everythign for him.. turns out i wasnt ready.. i thought i needed some more time
and i thought he was mature but iw as totally wrong.. he got angry at me for saying im not ready.. he got soo angry at me. then he ended up tellin his lil friends about seeing me naked.. so for sure i know hes not ready for anything like that
.. but now its high school it gets so much more serious and i dont know what im doing.. would it be wrong if i lost it and i do feel as if hes the right person because i liked him for a long.. long time and he seems mature.. but im not to sure yet

you answered it yourself.

if you have to ask you're not ready. Really, sex isn't something you have to make yourself feel ready to do. it will come naturally when you're ready.

alrite thanks

You shouldn't care so much about what people think. Most people are idiots anyway. Don't be fake just to try and impress people. You should do what makes you happy not your "friends".

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I know exactly how you feel. I used to be in this same predicament. You can't force it. When the critical time comes where you MUST decide whether or not your going to have sex, you will know.

If you have to ask yourself if your ready then I'd say you aren't. Don't push things. Make sure you are really ready and you really trust the guy that you are with. If you have some kind of strong emotional connection to him...like a really good friend or a guy that you have been with for a long time...then it should be easier. I'm not saying that even if you think your ready and you go to get with the guy that you are going to be completely ready. Don't push it. If your "friends" are pushing you to have sex then they aren't you friends. You shouldn't be pushed into something this big.

You're not the only virgin, and if you are and your friends are making fun of you or whatever, then it's time for new friends. You don't know if you're ready, which probably means you're not, so you shouldn't have sex.

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