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Dark Inferno · #1 (**permalink**) 02-25-2008, 06:03 AM

um yeah. Lately, I've been experiencing a lot of emotional frustration. Not the sexual kind, I assure you. Just frustration that nobody understands how I feel and every time I voice my thoughts or tell someone something, they just shrug or ignore it completely or throw it back in my face, or they don't hear the beginning so I have to repeat everything again, many times because of the interruptions and then after all that, nobody picks up on it anyway. I've had this before, during a breakdown, which I'm not going to say anything else about on here. But afterwards, the same process happened again, with the doctors/psychatrists/therapists. They ask me questions and I know this, because its happened too many times now. They've already made their decision and I know what it is. I don't need telling twice. I hate feeling this way, but I give up now. There's no point trying to tell someone or voice my thoughts if they won't have the curtsey to even listen. Sigh. I just wondered if anyone has any advice on how to solve this frustration problem. It feels like stress, but its not stress. If that makes any sense. Thanks in advance.

DagoFlip · #2 (**permalink**) 02-25-2008, 09:07 AM

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Originally Posted by Dark Inferno

um yeah. Lately, I've been experiencing a lot of emotional frustration. Not the sexual kind, I assure you. Just frustration that nobody understands how I feel and every time I voice my thoughts or tell someone something, they just shrug or ignore it completely or throw it back in my face, or they don't hear the beginning so I have to repeat everything again, many times because of the interruptions and then after all that, nobody picks up on it anyway. I've had this before, during a breakdown, which I'm not going to say anything else about on here. But afterwards, the same process happened again, with the doctors/psychatrists/therapists. They ask me questions and I know this, because its happened too many times now. They've already made their decision and I know what it is. I don't need telling twice. I hate feeling this way, but I give up now. There's no point trying to tell someone or voice my thoughts if they won't have the curtsey to even listen. Sigh. I just wondered if anyone has any advice on how to solve this frustration problem. It feels like stress, but its not stress. If that makes any sense. Thanks in advance.

my ears are open to ur problems

im like the "listener of problems" for my friends
idk, i know that it doesnt sound like DagoFlip to be "the listener of problems"
but i listen =]]

Tiffany · #3 (**permalink**) 02-25-2008, 11:25 AM

I listen too...
I'm not really sure what to tell you, i've never experienced anything like that, but we're all willing to listen if that will help

#4 (**permalink**) 02-25-2008, 12:04 PM

Again, like everyone else has said, you need to find someone who will listen, and show that they care about you and your feelings.

Dark Inferno · #5 (**permalink**) 02-25-2008, 02:20 PM

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Originally Posted by DagoFlip

my ears are open to ur problems

im like the "listener of problems" for my friends
idk, i know that it doesnt sound like DagoFlip to be "the listener of problems"
but i listen =]]

Hehehe. Mr Agony Aunt. Suits you. DagoFlip has a softie side.

I just don't want to go into stress overload again and have another relapse. I have many worries and fears to contend with, but that's just something that always makes me feel angry, I suppose. I know I have a tough time talking about what happened in just a little over six months and throughout my first relationship. I generally veil it with positive feelings or practice through music, hence the craziness on here, or that might be just me mind running away from me. So thanks and I'll get back to you all with stuff that I've decided to reveal. If you don't mind.

DagoFlip · #6 (**permalink**) 02-25-2008, 09:52 PM

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Originally Posted by Dark Inferno

Hehehe. Mr Agony Aunt. Suits you. DagoFlip has a softie side.

oh no....i've tainted my image =[[[

Tiffany · #7 (**permalink**) 02-26-2008, 02:38 AM

We dont mind =D

ashleyyy* · #8 (**permalink**) 02-26-2008, 09:38 AM

honestly it seems like we are alot alike. like i really understand what your saying. im in the same boat you are shug. you can talk to me whenever you need too. maybe we are alot alike! : ]

Dark Inferno · #9 (**permalink**) 02-26-2008, 02:16 PM

O.o.
>.>
given too much away.
...now you're really gonna assume I'm crazy.

ashleyyy* · #10 (**permalink**) 02-28-2008, 07:06 AM

im not going to assume your crazy! -- i promise! ; ]