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Old 04-17-2008, 02:00 PM
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Lately, i've been completely apathetic about almost everything.
I'm usually the type of person that tries my best in everything i do, and thinks about the consequences before doing things.
Like, before this "wave" of apathy, i would always do my best to do my homework, and i had stopped smoking weed as i had promised my best friend. Now i don't feel any pressure to do my work, and i smoke weed like it's nothing.
When it comes to school work, once i accept the fact that i'm gonna do bad, then i'm fine with it.
I used to be so motivated, and now, the motivation is just gone. Part of me thinks it's partially my friends' fault because they consider me like, the "dumb" one of the group because of how i act. before, i didn't let that bother me, but now it seems like i've just accepted the fact that they consider me dumb
it's like i don't feel like doing anything important anymore, and all i want to do is relax. it's like i'm bored in life. what do i do? how do i get the motivation back? if i let this go on, my grades will suffer even more, and it'll hurt my chances of getting into university
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It seems like you used weed as something to look forward to. Now find something to take its place.
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Stop being a dumbass. I'm apathetic person #1 and had this same problem pushing through middle and early high school. Honestly, take up the reigns and pull your shit together. Get a goal, like a car, an apartment, something of that nature. And your grades determine if you get those things, so you have to actually work at them to reach your goals.

And stop smoking weed. Doing damage to your body purposefully has to be the dumbest thing ever.
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Stop being a dumbass. I'm apathetic person #1 and had this same problem pushing through middle and early high school. Honestly, take up the reigns and pull your shit together. Get a goal, like a car, an apartment, something of that nature. And your grades determine if you get those things, so you have to actually work at them to reach your goals.

And stop smoking weed. Doing damage to your body purposefully has to be the dumbest thing ever.
deffintily, like i've had ADHD all my life, and i still have it....i have no motivation whatsoever, so i force myself to find a goal...that i like
trust me, ur not the only kid that has no motivation, ur a teen for God's sake haha

but yea, stop the weed bro! There's no point....it makes u feel good for a few minutes? It's not worth what it can do to you in the long run
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Old 04-18-2008, 11:41 AM
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Hugs not drugs!
With the homework situation, I usually do it all before I leave school,mainly because there are no distractions there,and then I just take a later bus, because I know when I get home I'm not going to want to do it.
Or if I do have to do it when I get home it's the first thing I do.
Even though you may hate doing it, you just have to.
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Old 04-25-2008, 11:22 AM
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Stop being a dumbass. I'm apathetic person #1 and had this same problem pushing through middle and early high school. Honestly, take up the reigns and pull your shit together. Get a goal, like a car, an apartment, something of that nature. And your grades determine if you get those things, so you have to actually work at them to reach your goals.

And stop smoking weed. Doing damage to your body purposefully has to be the dumbest thing ever.
holy fucking shit, njord's here to? how many sites are you norse gods on?
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