okay guys, be honest.... do you really just want the skinny sexy girls, or do girls like my self have a chance?

im about 5'4, and a bit on the heavier side....that's not to say im fat and lazy...im really quite active...i train with the swim team 3 times a week (intensely), and play other sports like soccer, flag football, vollyball, badminton, (floor)hockey....etc...


i want to know the scoop on what guys think about girls who just can't put that cookie down...
are we just not as attractive... or are you just not looking for personality?

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what you say and what you do
only make me think of you
what can i say,im in love with you
i can only hope you'll love me too...

I'm not really sure. I guess the attraction just isn't as much. My girlfriend is really small and skinny, but I like her mostly of her personality. The way I see things:

Looks attract, Personality is then important, then you need both, then after the sense of a month or two, personality is most important.

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I agree.
I think looks are what initially attract a person, but it is a personality which keeps them in the relationship.

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the longer we can keep creating,
the more will be possible.
The longer we can tolerate being incomplete.
Delay gratification.

I dont like extremely skinny girls at all! (like models and all) but i dont prefer fat ones as well... I prefer somewhat between (nothing to grab on sux, a lot to grab on sux as well!)

I like meh...not skinny skinnnyy girls...but ur typical attention grabber type of skinny (if that makes sense)...ohh
wuts sexy is skinny WITH curves... ohh la la

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i just want to know why i never seem to have plans for sat night, even though i have tons of guy friends, and the only thing seperating me from my girl friends is that they fit into size 8 and down, and i wear size 14....i mean, i think im pretty, and im confident, and active, unlike alot of other pretty girls who primp and cant do anything forbid they brake a nail... which is stupid, b/c to survive in minus 40 weather in my small northern town, you can't do nothing. silly girls:P

and ive heard other girls ask the same question, and guys say "oh curves" and this analogy :when you want a steak you want a gimpy thin nasty one or a thick juicy one with some meat on it?

but then they start dating the anorexic down the street.

im so confused

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what you say and what you do
only make me think of you
what can i say,im in love with you
i can only hope you'll love me too...

Too bad dating someone and eating a steak are NOT even close to the same thing... Even this analogy makes people look pathetic and desperate.

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I'm not trying to be mean but a size 14 isnt just a little curvy...its pretty overweight...I'm 5'6 and 130 pounds and I'm far from a size 14 but im just as far from anorexic looking

size 14 isnt over weight lol

fucking hell lol

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Its Time To Be A Big Girl Now And Big Girls Dont Cry

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Ellie