So my boyfriend won't have sex with me until I get an HIV test and I understand why, but to me it makes me feel like he thinks I'm a whore. I've only been with 3 guys prior to him and only had sex with each of them once and always protected. He's a virgin and I know he's just wants to be safe, but yeah I don't know what to do. I plan on taking it, but I know i'll have to do it alone which is the only thing that really scares me.

It seems like a person can never be
too precautious today about STDs....

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Tell him to come take it with you.

Exactly what you should do.

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Bandwagon's full, please, catch another.

Yeah, if he's the one demanding it, then he should be there to support you if you're nervous, or scared or whatever. If not, than I wouldn't give him anything.

Agreed.
You shouldn't get offended over it. He's just trying to ensure his health, and to be honest it's a really smart thing to do, HIV/AIDS is a really nasty disease, and if you have HIV im sure you wouldn't want to pass it on to him.

Well at least you know he wants to be safe. Don't be such a typical chick and take it to heart, you should make him get one too.

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I think she said he's a virgin...but I know several guys that have tried that trick on girls...

Even if he is a virgin, he could have gotten HIV from his parents.
Getting the test done is safe for everyone.

Yea and not even just HIV. He could have a number of STDs.

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