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Old 12-06-2007, 10:31 AM
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The "waiting for mariage" idea seems pointless to me. Well, I guess it`s ok if you`re a religion fanatic but not good at all if you`re not. Abstinance has a bad impact on your brain until you really learn to live with it.
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Old 12-06-2007, 08:00 PM
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how is abstinence bad? i would think wanton sex is bad
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Old 12-07-2007, 06:14 AM
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Well, sex is definitely very important in a relationship. It's a way to relax yourself, to destress, dunno to explain this very well, anywayz... but if you don't get good sex with your partner, you might get frustrated and start searching for physical pleasure somewhere else :|
I don't understand why would anyone risk and marry someone before they know if they are compatible in bed?
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Old 12-07-2007, 01:38 PM
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thats why im waiting. only the one whom i really love and die for will know the true extent of my love. if i have sex with someone i dont want to spend the rest of my life with, im feeding them lies.
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Old 12-08-2007, 01:32 AM
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how is abstinence bad? i would think wanton sex is bad
Well, to be a succesfull abstinent you have to conquer and keep on a leash your lust. That`s a very hard thing to do when you`re a teen. Abstinence keeps your mind busy all the time, you can`t focus at school, job etc. I think that is how it works at the begining, until you get the hang of it.
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Old 12-09-2007, 07:04 PM
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its hard, but once you get used to it, its good. also helps that im a loser. (wait, is that good or bad???)
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Old 12-10-2007, 12:50 PM
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its hard, but once you get used to it, its good. also helps that im a loser. (wait, is that good or bad???)
Being a loser works in a few ways

You can't get laid, because you're a loser, so you just "choose" not to, because you're catholic.
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You're catholic, therefore you're an automatic loser, so you have no chances anyway


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Old 12-18-2007, 12:57 PM
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Sex Sex Sex what the hell is sex you spread you legs and let something go in and out of you for a little while yea maybe if your in love it will work but if your just a couple and that if your very young 1-17 then you really shouldnt be doing anything in the first place. we also come from a society where everybdy wants to be like the head girl os the popular girl in skool and it souldnt even be like that. so i tell you this sex is not what it needs to be and what it seems to be when your not together
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Old 12-18-2007, 07:35 PM
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Being a loser works in a few ways

You can't get laid, because you're a loser, so you just "choose" not to, because you're catholic.
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You're catholic, therefore you're an automatic loser, so you have no chances anyway


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Old 12-20-2007, 04:45 PM
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i beg to differ

Well there's always one!

Hum... as for the marriage thing, I'd disagree with that 'cause times are changing, the conventional way isn't really in anymore. I believe it all dwells with choices. I'm not (particularly) keen on the whole 'don't-do-it-until-you're-married' prospect, because that is (pretty much) a religious based custom or tradition, as it were. And in truth - religion (my criticism of religion) is based on people being afraid of the unknown. What annoys me the most is how "sex", "making love", (whatever semantic field or synonyms you'd care to use for it) is portrayed through the media and various belief systems/religions today... its pretty much the same, no matter what term you use to describe it. =/

But look of it this way - why should waiting until weddings matter? Even if this whole almighty being of God did exist, he probably wouldn't give a damn anyway about the mortals, 'cause they defied him/her in the first place... so why should it really matter... but hey... that's just how I percieve this kind of stuff... -shrug- probably is all different for you. Depends on what you believe in, I suppose.

I guess my point is its your choice in what you do (or believe) at the end of the day. Just one of those things really. Own being, own mind and all of that... yeah.. no brain power left now...
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