I used to feel like I was in a rush.
Now I don't care, I just want my first one to be relatively respectable. as in not giving a sloppy BJ to a 32 year old in the back of a car

naww,,,u want it rough and nasty...its the only way =P

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its true, most of my guy friends dont respect girls that have lost it, because most of them are just there to get screwed. yet there are girls who have lost it but are respected because they lost it to a strong relationship, which completly changes everything...

but yeah virgins are usually the ones that dont get used... but ones it gets out that your not a virgin ... it basicly sucks....

I myself think it's wrong, but I also feel it's their own decision, so I try to avoid it. It's not just girls, but it's guys also. Peer pressure causes a lot, but unfortunately nothing we can do about it.

I agree with you, completely. I think it's sad how both guys and girls feel the need to have sex. But what really bothers me is how guys think they can't be a virgin or else they're not 'cool.' It's so retarded. Just like a girl is a hoe for sleeping with many guys, I think guys are just as much a whore as a girl is, if they sleep around with just anyone.

I really think that waiting until you are married, preferably marriage, is really the best thing to do. Rushing into having sex is just retarded, and you will most likely regret it.

I, of course, do want to wait to have sex until I feel I am a little more ready, but I think waiting until marriage is pushing it. My hormones are a little too high to wait that long, lol But yeah, waiting is good, but c'mon, don't try to over-do it. Just do it when you are emotionally and physically ready, and when you have a partner willing.

losing it is a big deal, but i don't like the idea of waiting til marriage, or even the idea of marriage. sex is kind of like a soda fountain at mcdonalds, one soda is sex with one person, it's best to not just have one flavor. your going to be here for a while and your going to want more than coke. go ahead and have as many sodas that you want, hell is that coffee? add it to your rootbeer, sprite, sunkist, and coke orgy!


as for the whole women men thing

men's natural instinct is to have as many children as possible as soon as possible. it is un natural for human men to be husbands and monogomous


women's nature is to keep a provider around so the child would have a better chance at life. it is un natural for human women to be promiscious

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being a mime means never having to say your sorry

Actually...the soda analogy has nothing to do with sex, haha. And my instinct isn't to have children...it's to avoid them

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Lol, I actually really enjoyed the pop analogy.
How long did it take you to make that one up? lol

And as for sex, sleeping around with 983752835 guys is not good.

I'm all you need baby.



jk jk

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